the hardest decision of my life has been presented to me a little over three weeks ago. Here's the situation; I'm in love with a man that my parents don't approve of because he doesn't believe like them. he used to, when I first started liking him but he's changed and so have I. So the other day my parents told me I can't come around the family until I have a change of heart and stop loving this man. I can't say it's very easy because I love my family very very much. I come from a very large family and we we're all close growing up, so now to have to choose one or the other is killing me. Of course my man thinks I should stay with him and make my own decisions but i thought it would be this hard. I love this guy so much and I want to spend the rest of my life with him but what should I do? does anyone out there have any suggestion for a girl that needs advice?